I really enjoy our time together because she and I are finally developing a relationship. While I was engaged, it seemed she saw me as the girl stealing away her older brother. At my wedding shower — she was a bridesmaid — she left early, claiming she had to get to the airport to fly to New York for a modeling gig. I learned the next day she never went to the Big Apple. When she realized I wasn't all that bad and I grew some patience, we actually began to chat often, even sharing similar frustrations about her mother. It's one of the only few things we can relate to because we have so little in common. She was a model, worked at clubs, has a gazillion friends and was pretty rebellious and unreliable.
However, since finding out she was going to become a mom, she has transformed into a completely different person. I'm so proud of her and so excited for what this baby is going to do for her.
As a gift, she and her boyfriend were given the chance to see Gianna through a 3D ultrasound. Because it took so long for the baby to face them, the woman doing the ultrasound gave them a DVD to thank them for their patience, which usually isn't included in the price. They brought it over with them and let me tell you, I have hardly ever been as intrigued or amazed. We laughed because she continued to bring her foot up to her face, then her arm. Her tiny hands were already opened and a few times, she stuck out her tongue. Hilarious.
When the time comes for us to start a family, my husband and I aren't going to find out what we're having. We decided that a while ago, along with keeping the name to ourselves. It'll be hard to wait, I'm sure, but so worth it. I think there are just so few surprises left in life ... still, it was neat looking at my niece.
Anyway, watching the video, I learned something I hadn't before: babies open their eyes in the womb! Amazing. My sister-in-law said that sometimes, they will put a flashlight up to her belly and they can see Giana pressing against the light. The other thing we were awed by — babies being able to live nine months in fluid and then immediately begin to breathe when they come into the world.
It just reinforces the wonder of our Heavenly Father, the miracle that is life and the knowing all of the intricate details only he could have imagined and designed.
I know my little niece is going to be so beautiful. We could already see. We want her to be here so badly! Just three more weeks!
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My relationship with my sister-in-law was like that for probably the first year Matt and I dated. We're really close now though and we also got closer while she was pregnant. The ultrasound is precious!
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